Parents and kids the same listen up.

Yup I failed that one like most everyone else.
No blame no excuses just facts.

I was a young mom. I was a child myself with so much pain and trauma unhealed that I didn’t even know existed.

Well truth is most of us were experiencing similar yet different experiences and we all are a bit messed up!

Yup news flash no one is perfect we all make mistakes!
We all cause harm at some point regardless of how we felt, or how good the intentions were it happened.
So why blame? It was done to us all.

I mean sure if you’ve never hurt anyone else ever then you’re exempt.
Blame does nothing. Speak only truth! Set boundaries communicate and make changes!

Understand love doesn’t seek to control or cause separation. Love doesn’t hurt. Only control and toxicity do.

Laugh, Live, Enjoy life! It is short, heal what you can and just simply try to understand everyone is living a life you know nothing about. And that is okay!

The one thing I didn’t do is walk away.

That also means setting boundaries and taking responsibility for who you’ve become regardless of your age or reason.
Everyone did the best they could.
Those who trying to be better are the keepers so why not learn to forgive.