Breastfeeding and when to stop.

On average mothers let society deem when they should stop breastfeeding instead of honoring their inner knowing. A baby and child are meant to drink the milk of the mother, they’re not baby cows yet we ostracize the mother for breastfeeding until 5 years old. As we celebrate the government and medical community telling us to give our children baby cow formula full of chemicals the human body wasn’t built to ingest, which causes unusual growth and that’s the mild side. Honor your knowing mommas and ignore this backwards society.

Cow’s milk is not designed for human consumption. … Cow’s milk contains on average about three times the amount of protein than human milk does, which creates metabolic disturbances in humans that have detrimental bone health consequences, according to a study published in the American Journal of Epidemiology.Jan 30, 2014

FTO found in cows milk are associated with increased body weight, adiposity and type 2 diabetes mellitus (T2DM).

Now that you know you, make an informed decision. So my advice only stop when you know without a doubt that it is the best choice for your child and you are at peace with the choice. No one else’s opinion matters over your knowing for your child.

Parenting the gifted child: A Series!

How to handle your child when they are struggling with over flowing emotions/tantrums/ meltdowns.

Stop, pause!
Breathe!
Speak calmly.
Ask what they feel like.
Ask if they would like to talk about how they feel.
Ask if there is anything you can do for them.

Now listen to their responses and really hear what they are trying to say to you that they don’t know how.

Children when angry may say hurtful things, try not to take offense. There are crazy times and it is very hard for the littles to understand and make sense properly of what is happening around them.

Things that are said in the moment like I’m
Mad at you or I hate you, typically speak to I’m hurt and you did it.

If this is the case ask them why are you hurt, how did I hurt you and allow them to speak without fear of judgement or retaliation.

Regardless of the answer they give you make sure to honor their emotions, understand they aren’t adults.
Realize as adults we have a hard enough time processing emotions and effectively communicating them… we have had how many years compared to their 0-18 to get comfortable with it?

If they say they don’t know what’s wrong-
Reassure them that it is absolutely okay not to know what’s wrong and ask if they can tell you what it feels like.. listen closely to what they’re truly telling you and if they are at an appropriate age feel free to ask for clarity so you don’t assume, it will only make the disconnection worse.

Stop think back to when you were that age now be honest ask yourself what you would have needed and then realize it’s probably very different that what you received.
Now respond in the way you wish you had received.

Now that you have effectively handled an outburst in a healthy way. When it comes up again continue to react in the same ways you will notice a difference. Be patient spiritual children are highly perceptive and they will be looking to see if they can trust this change or if it is only temporary. 

Congratulations you have taken the first step in parenting a gifted child in a way that protects their truth and fosters healing and creativity

Gifted children what to do with them?

As a mother of 2 now fully grown divinely gifted children, I remember the struggles I faced. How alone I felt and so scared to mess them up.

Knowing that I wasn’t prepared to give them all the support they needed to truly grow with the knowledge and informs I had available. Also knowing I certainly didn’t want them to miss out on their magic and truth or to have done to them what was done to me!

What was a divinely magickal momma to do???? 

Pictures this in your minds eye if you will, Being a magickal momma in 1999 who was ready to change it all for her kids! With little resources available  I turned to myself and ancestors meditating, questioning searching for answers being guided by my Knowing. I researched anything and everything I could find, not stopping there I read everything I could find from Dr. Spock, to Dan Millman, to the Bible to…well you get the point! 

Then I started thinking about all the ways I was made to feel throughout my life that hurt and affected me in a bad way and I tried really hard not to do those things to my children.Unfortunately I’m not perfect and I made mistakes, from mistakes comes opportunity for growth and change,  once learned & healed come growth and knowledge. Ahh Wisdom yes wisdom along with tears, questioning, criticism, opinions, doubt and fears of failure.

As one went to two the three of us love we learn, we laugh  we grow, we listen,  we communicate, we tell each other what we need to know to grow and change, we trust, we heal, we created our blessed life, from days of struggles and pains of life, loss grief, transitions, sexual identity yes we are a Lesbian multiracial home! Through how to handle extreme amounts of energy, to nightmares, dark figures, hearing names being called, lights, fairies etc I’ve been through it all! 
Second guessing myself most of the way I didn’t have much to go on, but I knew above all what felt right and what didn’t especially when it came to making decisions for them. 

After a successful childhood they not only survived but thrived from and they didn’t even need to do that much work on the mistakes I had made! Finally I could breathe I was free from the pain of the past I had successfully broken the cycles and helped My children grow into happy healthy adults who are amazing souls! 

Are they perfect? No I told you no one is and that is awesome. They are pretty close to it! They are compassionate, open to change and learn. They lead in love and don’t ever trust fear, they stumble at times and they rise up taller, they question everything including my patience but they are the best humans I have ever met.

I don’t say that because mine but because they’re genuinely good far better then I was at their age. So it brings me so much hope to say it’s because they’re real, they aren’t afraid to communicate or take accountability they also aren’t afraid to assign blame where it is due and hold people accountable. They know when to look inside to see if it everyone else or if they are causing the problems, they know when to apologize. They know when to be gentle and what to stand their ground.

They help everyone they can because they love and want better for this life. They not only genuinely understand but beyond knowing they live the example leading the way, calling to all future leaders amongst them that they change they want to see begins with them!


Do I know it all, no I don’t and I don’t claim to. Am I perfect, again nope but I’ve been there! It’s nice to know you can trust the advice because you can see the proof it works and when you know it feels right in your soul it’s just extra confirmation!! Besides all parents need a support system that won’t judge them or have them committed! I love you all! Stay blessed!!!!

How do I heal my heart?

I am a healer and the saddest thing is to witness people who are trying to heal be lied to or denied healing in anyway. Do I charge yes I do…. why? Well for many reasons while I want to help every single person it’s not up to me just like it’s not up to you. 

I share knowledge and encouragement daily in many ways, social media, mentoring, podcast, blog, events etc…. I offer freely of my time and energy when I feel it is appropriate. I have boundaries and I honor and love myself my family and my loved ones and I enjoy being able to live my blessed life with them. I cannot do that in the way I deserve if I give away all of myself. My love is free and I give it freely what isn’t free is my education (I had to pay for it), my time (I can’t get it back), my energy (why should I suffer the pain of your choices), my effort (why should I be willing to give more then you are when it comes to your healing?). Now there is a difference between not being able to afford my services and wanting what I give for free… how?

Simply circumstances of life are so that it can make it hard enough to keep yourself afloat and that I understand I also offer personalized help until you show me my commitment to your healing is greater then your own. 

Without further ado onto how you can heal yourself a step by step guide! Be mindful you will have to find ways to measure your progress and hold yourself accountable.

Where do we go from here? 

There are two choices in any situation. The first choice is focus on the pain and become engulfed in it.
What does each option look like, mean, feel like and bring to your life?
Choice one


What does it feel like?

It feels like anxiety, sadness, loss of hope, fear, pain, anger, rage, loss and more…
What does it mean? Realistically it means the same as it always has on some level you have already questioned or known, now you can no longer deny it to yourself. You can’t change it alone either.
What does it look like? This one is tricky because it ties into what does it feel like and well it’s looks like it feels to you, however to the outside world looking in it looks like- depression, missed appointments and obligations, outbursts, tears, chaos, mess, destruction, miscommunication, self neglect and more.


What does it bring to your life?

The same circumstances and pain you have always experienced on a deeper more painful level. It continuously becomes louder, stronger as it continues to push you to your breaking your point in an attempt to have you finally choose you! Making you try to understand it, heal it, learn from it and change it.
Depending on how painful, how toxic, how many opportunities you have had to change in the past and the destruction it brings to your life that you can’t see.

Will be the deciding factor in how hard this experience is to move through. Call it what you will, a life changing event will occur to force your hand, an awakening, a dark night of the soul, a mental break down, a gateway to a spiritual journey, a midlife crisis, an affair, a death…. the list and the reasons are infinite. 

The only thing that is consistent throughout is the fact that no matter how long you try to avoid it or ignore it. Your soul has a job to do and it will do all it can so that you don’t fail and have to continue to learn the lesson you are ready to move past as you take step into the next phase of your life.
Your soul/higher self/ psyche/ brain/ mind/ heart/ inner child/heart … cannot do it without your permission.. why because you have free will which means if you so choose to stay where you are then this is where you stay until you make a choice to move.

The second choice is to take the knowledge you have gained and do what you need to so that you can keep moving forward in your life.
What does each option look like, mean, feel like and bring to your life?


Choice 2

What does it feel like?

Now this is where it gets tricky because it is scary, I won’t lie to you it is painful, it is releasing, freeing, cleansing and it time it is absolutely beautiful in a new way and life doesn’t ever hurt in the same ways again. When the lesson tries to comes back with a new name and face to be looked at again it doesn’t affect you the same way.
What does it mean? It means healing from a specific trauma from the past one by one as you begin reviewing stalk yourself, yes stalk yourself! Now here you try and figure out why you are triggered the way you are and what your triggers are, why you feel as you do, think as you do and live as you do. Sit with those feelings and pick them apart tracing back as far as you can, I like to guide my clients to the first time they remember feeling that emotion. Now that you have found which emotion and memory to search the past through, you are guided to understand how, what and why that interaction caused you to feel. How it has replayed throughout your entire life simply with different names and faces different situations and scenarios.
Ask yourself how it still currently affects your life. Once you have figured it out start looking into your adult life, seek the pattern that was set because of that initial situation and the emotions you felt.
It is time to go to the current situations in your life that have been problematic due to those patterns so let’s set the emotions aside and look at just the facts. Why???? Because your perception has changed and emotions simply aren’t the facts of the situation and each one involved has their own emotions caused by their own traumas…. learning to look at situations as an observer can help you navigate moving forward easily.

What does it look like?

Pausing before responding to give yourself a moment to breath and respond from a place of love not pain. It looks like a rebirth, freedom, joy, new beginnings. It’s the shine that you never realized you lost getting brighter and life beginning to change in beautiful ways, it looks like pleasure where there was once pain.

What does it bring to my life?


It brings the ability to utilize all that you have learned to life! Now where you came from a place of pain in whichever emotion you worked through you stand in a place of love. Living even with one step deeper in true self love through real healing begins to attract and call into your life beautiful new relationships, opportunities and love (not always sexually), growth and the tools needed to start new with a strong foundation in which you have healed. You glow brighter that new level of brightness doesn’t leave because it’s no longer temporary you did the work in healing that particular toxic pattern.

Down into the belly…

Again I could be wrong, I could know absolutely nothing, I could be crazy I know your mind is saying this to you and trust me I understand where you’re coming from it’s a lot to process but I only ask that you look. If I’m wrong you have now researched and educated yourself and found validity in your belief or you feel, see, know and find that there is truth to all I am writing and now you are forearmed! I am the only me I can be, I am that I am….

Now that you are questioning or feel you know please look really look.. it’s so sickening. Look up connections between mother Teresa who was canonized as a saint and her ties to Giselle maxwell, her father, Jeffrey Epstein, and Epstein to Trump and so forth… child trafficking charges, what Adrenochrome is and how it’s harvested etc and now you found the connection- church, media, government, medical. This is a human farm we are cash cows. That is why you are told to ironically “go forth and multiply” or “Be fruitful and multiply” (Genesis 1:28) which we know we are a overly populated planet so it will cause disastrous implications for the planet.

I ask that you look at these some of her famous quotes and then after you see her crimes look at her famous quotes again with the new perspective and replace the word small for child and look at the work love should as a form of sex, replace strength with power and see Adrenochrome tell me
what you now see.

Peace begins with a smile..

If you judge people, you have no time to love them.

There are no great things, only
small things with great love.

Happy are those.

Spread love everywhere you go.

Let no one ever come to you without leaving happier.

If you can’t feed a hundred people, then feed just one.

Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless.

Let us always meet each other with smile, for the smile is the beginning of love.

If we have no peace, it is because we have forgotten that we belong to each other.

Be faithful in small things because it is in them that your strength lies.

I have found the paradox that if I love until it hurts, then there is no hurt, but only more love.

God-Devil

Trust nothing you are told until you research deeply. The problem is people are doing what when they pray to the god they have been taught to? They are praying to a false god to pray is to ask for something in return if something… like a contract and it’s a sin to pray to a false god so these people are being preyed up (fed upon) believing they will enter the kingdom of God if they follow the rules of the church.. and confess their sins and say their prayers, unfortunately, they are not living the way of the true God-consciousness and they are praying to a false god and confessing sins and saying prayers (making a contract).

Instead of learning by trial and error, healing the cycles and changing the behaviors- which is the way to get to that heaven level so to say…

False is the god this society teaches you about in my opinion and my research leads me to believe it is, in fact, the devil energy you are warned about.

Through control and fear people become stuck they hear the pastors and clergy speak some truth which makes it comfortable enough but they aren’t told all they need so they can never truly put it to action in any real and tangible way.

Hence the saying you meet more true-hearted people in the streets and the imposters in the church.. not that the intention isn’t there but the application and change never come… don’t forget the road to hell is paved in good intentions they are telling you all you need to see to show You it’s a trap but in a world where few can see many have to repeat.

Good things happen out of the blue to give you a break from the pain and hopefully, by doing so you can return to joy momentarily opening the possibility to opening the door to your past and learning why you are you and why you do act like you do and choose what actions to make…..what so many don’t realize is that until you understand the actions and heal the pain that caused them.. the cycle continues as long as the cycle continues you have to return to this same pain in a far deeper way every time you don’t get it right… hence reincarnation. It’s not just what you’ve done it’s what others have done to you and what you chose to do to others in return because of your experience and it’s so much deeper but that is a basic place to truly start. Think about whatever is unhealed in this life and where you are in your life, all the money in the world doesn’t mean a thing if you’re not a better person.

So all the mess you made that you didn’t clean up is given right back to you this time from a much harder starting point than you had in this life.

Once you break and heal the cycles and become the lessons you embody and completely heal in all ways not just mentally you are clear and then and only then do you enter the true kingdom of God.

Those who were able to keep their heart pure, regardless of the pain, trauma, and heartbreak they had to endure. They were open to love and still tried to do what they could to help from a place of love when others needed them.

They are divine and awakened on a deeper level. They

are known as lightworkers, empaths, medicine people, to wake others and begin to question, heal in deeper ways and assist in breaking the dark control over this planet. So yes everyone who was called felt the energy of the awakening.

Most believe they completed a full awakening yes the energy was awakened, but until all of the work is truly done you don’t have a complete awakening to the true God Consciousness.

Many believed that was it and never went further, for them this was comfortable for them it was complete.. when in reality they are stuck and not doing the work so they will return unless they go deeper.

The tools like tarot & reiki etc help to give hope and guide you yet that’s all.

Go further, do the research for yourself, go deeper, look again, see what was right in front of you. It is time to save yourself the power is within you!! Be careful who you trust very interesting times are upon us!

Evolve

No longer

No longer can you claim you didn’t know better…

No longer is there safety in ignorance.

No longer is there comfort in excuses.

Make sure your heart is pure.

Your intentions true.

Reciprocity is key!

Nobody should be made to wait on you.

Be sure you make shit right.

Understand with anything and everything it doesn’t matter if it’s love, family, friendship, time, business, money, sex, material, energy.. You can’t take and not give.

This is endgame.

If you choose to not evolve shit is about to get real fast.

Take it as a final warning or however you will.

What is in your heart and how you choose to live, how you love, how you respect and how you treat all will decide the outcome of how the rest of your life will unfold.

Help has been sent and many have abused it while claiming ignorance and now it will not be offered in the same way again.

This is the end of days as we have known it.

The final chance to make it right and move from the hells of life to heaven on earth.

The choice is no longer yours.

Evolve grow and change or be forced to.

Free will as we know it isn’t free will at all.

Free will without access to all the hidden knowledge, isn’t free will at all!

How can one decide what is good and true for them?

How can one be expected to understand the implications and consequences of choices without knowing all the information?

Until you can see that your free will is dependent on the knowledge you have access to.

As long as you rely on those in power to tell you what to know.

How will you ever be truly free to decide what is right for you?

#TuneIn #intuition #remember #ResearchEverything #chooseyou #Soul #awakening

Love hold the commitment

I love absolutely so I won’t commit!

Love is limitless and pure

Love is safe never demanding

Love is open and wise

Love is free and everlasting..

If you’re committed it means placed in confinement.

Confinement means held captive.

Captive means taken and held as a prisoner of war.

And

Captive also means held under control of another but having the appearance of independence.

Prisoner means person deprived of liberty and kept under involuntary restraint, confinement, or custody.

Liberty means the quality or state of being free.

So no never committed.

Always in love!

I am sovereign. I am love. I am liberty. I am power.

How long can you pretend everything is good and all is well?

The world is in a state of chaos, unbalanced and full of pain.

We have basic rights that aren’t given to all and they continue to be taken away, why? Because you view us as less or is it because you’re afraid if you give us the most basic of rights we will find our power and take over the world?

We don’t want to take your world away, we only want to be safe in our own space, safe in our skin and in our truth.

How can any human with a soul stand and support what is happening and what is being done, continuing on with their lives as if all is well? It’s easy I suppose when you buy the lies that it doesn’t effect you.

Here’s the cold hard truth we are all affected by it, first they withhold rights and basic human decency and a few speak but it goes unheard. Then they take away more rights and implement the procedures they deem necessary to remain in control and nothing gets said because it doesn’t effect the majority.

They rule with terror and it’s accepted because those with the advantage don’t truly feel it.. when we raise our voices and allow our pain to be heard we are deemed as unreasonable and problematic. What you don’t see is the longer you remain silent on these issues you feel don’t concern you, you are giving them the power to come for you and when they do no one will be left to speak and help you. Not because we don’t want to but because your silence is killing us.

I hear and jokes about the purge but the reality is that’s what going on but we call it justice and blame the victims. How can you say you are of God and allow these injustices to continue? Black men women and children being killed for the amount of melanin in their skin, 3000 if not more Latin brown skinned children that were in ice custody missing? How does a caged child go missing?yes a child in a cage really allow that to sit with you… LGBTQIA men and women no longer given protection or rights to medical care… but it doesn’t affect you because little Billy and Anne are home safe.

The hate once spoken in the privacy of the home is now proudly shouted and celebrated in public forums and we have a leader that applauses and supports this. We are awakening and many are living in this false hope that love and light will save us all but what will make the difference is our voice and our truth. The burning desire to end the inequality and injustice.

How long will it not affect you? How long can you turn a blind eye? How can you say you love your family or friends if you allow this to continue it may not be happening to you right now but it’s happening to someone you love even if you don’t want to admit it or see it.

To be a warrior of light means to speak your truth and to use your voice to speak for those who have had their voices taken away.

When we lift each other up we rise, when we turn a blind eye it’s only time until we all fall.

I can touch on a million things and I’m not intentionally leaving any group out what I am doing is putting a call to action. Change begins at home.