child abuse

I’ll never truly get over you

/ divinetemptations1111 / Leave a comment

No matter that I’ve moved on I’m still not over you. I know how fucked up this sounds yet let me break it down for you.

You were the one I knew I was meant to find in this world and when we found each other and our hands and eyes met I knew you were the one I was meant to spend my life with.

I made the mistake of coming off my medication and I got sick and dragged us through it all as I was desperately trying to heal and you were my home my love my everything.

The person I became is not the person I am I was sick but you couldn’t see it and so you grew tired and left me behind I don’t blame you.

I waited for 2 years for you to come back yet all I was met with was silence and the conformation from you that it was over and it killed me.

I healed and took my time and I’ve met someone else but she’s not you no one is you and you are the one my heart knew and you were the one I was meant for .

All the tears of joy we shared crying in gratitude because we’ve never felt so loved and it been so true all of that I can’t forget and I’ll never forget you.

I’m happy don’t get me wrong but my guy I’m not happy like I was happy when it was you and I. I know I’ll never feel that way again and I wonder why you didn’t keep me as a friend.

Regardless of anything we went through my word is my vow and I still hold that true there isn’t anything I wouldn’t do for you.

I’m here.

I wish I could take it all back.

/ divinetemptations1111 / Leave a comment

Yet I can’t. Nor can I wish it away. It happened and now we are done.

I found all your voicemails from December 3,2022 I wanted to die when I heard you.

You were so fragile so afraid and so alone I was the one you trusted as home and I was gone.

I didn’t mean too, I wasn’t strong enough to carryon I needed help. I wasn’t myself too much pain and trauma bent me until I broke.

I’m so sorry I hurt you in the process. I had no idea what you must have gone through until I heard your voice. Your cries still haunt me I’m so sorry my baby.

Even though we’re not together I love you more with every day I only want the best for you in every way.

Life is good…

/ divinetemptations1111 / Leave a comment

Life is good these days. I just moved into the cutest 3 bedroom with my daughter and my best friend (who coincidentally is madly in love with me). I’m talking to someone new it’s been a minute I’m finally ready to meet her. Tiffany and I are in communication it’s not great yet it’s something, I’ll take it.

I know things can’t be different and this is where we are yet I don’t want to be done. Tiffany will always be my great one and I miss her every day in every way. She wasn’t just my fiancé she was truly my best friend. Her leaving me was the greatest betrayal to my heart it destroyed me and yet I still hold space and pray for her daily.

I love her and you can’t help what the heart wants. I miss us as we were and I know given the chance it could be out of this world. My roommate and bestie is Estee she is also my ex fiancé from like 17 years ago. Life in our home is beautiful filled with laughter and joy. It’s peaceful.

The woman I’m talking to has children which concerns me because I don’t want anymore pain and with kids it’s easy to fall in love with kids making it harder to leave if things don’t work out. I’m not waiting for Tiffany she has made her decision crystal clear, I just won’t give up on her either.

My vibe is high these days which is nice and I’m about to be a grandmother which is wild to me. Like my person that I created is making his own person. Wild right! My baby boy is having a baby boy! I can’t wait to meet my grandson he is so loved already and he isn’t even here yet! I am so excited to be for him what I should have been to Gabby and Chris I just didn’t realize or know better at the time. I was only 21 the same age as my son is now. He has me in his corner he will never fail.

To watch Chris step into this new role in life is incredible. I am so in awe of the man he has become. He is emotionally and mentally supportive a hard worker, loving, devoted and protective. I am honored to call him my son and to watch him raise his beautiful son. Life is good.

Gabby is home with me now. Life is beautiful. I love to watch her strength and feisty personality as she maneuvers her way through this world with her big beautiful heart and soul. I watch her excitement and pride when speaking of her nephew it melts my heart I did something right in this world. Life is good.

Too many thoughts of you

/ divinetemptations1111 / Leave a comment

They invade my mind, body and heart. I can’t shake you. I wish I could reach out and hear your voice, look into your beautiful brown eyes and kiss your perfect lips.

I miss you and so much has changed I wish you were here to enjoy it all with me. I hope life is treating you well. I love you that will never change yet I can’t wait around for someone who doesn’t want me.

I love myself too much for that. When the time is right I pray we meet again with warmth in our hearts and smiles in our eyes until then I think of you. I love you my guy.

Twinflame journey

/ divinetemptations1111 / Leave a comment

This journey is the hardest thing everyone says to forget you yet how can I when you’re a part of me?

How you did me was dirty and how you’re doing me now is worse. How could this be love when all I do is hurt?

All the things you said run around my head yet the reality is you didn’t mean anything that came out of your mouth or it wouldn’t be like this.

Deleted videos

/ divinetemptations1111 / Leave a comment

I saw you deleted the videos of us on social media. It hurt. I can’t believe we’re in this place.

How the fuck did we get here? Why did I stop taking my mental health medication in 2019. I got off of them because I was finally happy and believed I didn’t need them anymore, I was wrong.

I didn’t see the decline until October 2020 when I had my first mental breakdown even then I refused to be medicated thinking I could fix me without the medication. Again I was wrong in November 2022 I had another mental breakdown and this one literally cost me everything.

I have been on medication since December 2022 and it is needed for the rest of my life. Being on medication has helped make things a bit easier on me.

However I lost everything December 2022 after that breakdown something changed and my fiancé at the time said is was too much loss and she didn’t want to be with me anymore. I was in the hospital I had no idea of what had happened or what was happening to be honest.

I moved in with a friend I barely knew who was renting a room in her house. I saw my ex for the last time February 21 2023 when I was finally released from custody. She came saw me we talked as we drove and cried I couldn’t stop her she finally said goodbye.

Months have passed and one thing is for sure I love that woman with all I am and wish I could get her to talk to me. I’m deeply sorry for the pain I caused when I had my breakdown. Life isn’t bad here friendship is a beautiful gift and most days I spent hours in our pool it’s therapy. I laugh I also cry when I think of her and how much I miss her.

I wish I would have known how hard it was to deal with someone who has bipolar, mdd and ptsd. I would have never taken myself off the medication. I have been to jail and a mental health facility I’ve lost the love of my life and I’m here starting life all over again.

Every moment I find another reminder of our love

/ divinetemptations1111 / Leave a comment

It breaks my heart from the cards and letters to your jacket hanging up. I miss you. I try to reach out but you don’t want to hear from me, I honestly don’t understand how we went from true love to nothing at all.

Give me something anything at all just give me any way to talk to you or see you, I have to look into your eyes and hear you say you don’t love me maybe then I can find some peace. I know our hearts are still linked and it’s you I can’t leave.

I know you’re gone and there’s not a thing I can do except sit here patiently waiting for you to do what you have to do for you. Hopefully one day you will reach out and then we can see what this love is about.

I wonder if you’re thinking of me and missing me because this life without you is painful. It was supposed to be you and I together forevermore. I’m waiting here alone holding the door waiting for you to come back home to me.

I wish you were here

/ divinetemptations1111 / Leave a comment

I’m sitting in the recliner next to the one you used to lay in and fall asleep I can’t stop thinking about you and the love we shared. I miss you more then words can express and I’m just so lost when it comes to what happened to us.

I know I had the breakdown and it was bad yet I don’t remember it and now you’re gone and I’m forced to live without you. I miss everything about you if I pretend it’s almost like you’re still here with me and you’re just at work or something. I wish I could take all of the actions and words back that hurt you and made you leave me.

I have apologized countless times and I will continue until the day I die I’m so sorry I hurt you and you walked away to be okay yourself I honestly don’t know how I could ever do anything less then love you baby. I miss you my god I love you and I wish I could make this all better.

If you would give me a chance I would do everything in my power to make you the happiest woman in the world I don’t have that right anymore since I’m not your girl I would give anything to change it.

She asked me to move back in after everything and I’m so heartbroken that everything happened in November to destroy my life and now like oh nothings wrong come back. This is the worst part of it all we were destroyed for nothing at all. Now I have to live without you and I can’t stand it.

You will forever be the absolute love of my life and I will always be here hoping that you will come back one day.

Missing you

/ divinetemptations1111 / 1 Comment

I’m missing you again it happens every time I breathe. I wish like hell I could change the past and make you believe.

Your smile and laughter haunt me even in my dreams, I wish I would have treated you with more care when you were with me. I did the best I could do while healing from things you never deserved to be put through.

Now you’re not here and everyday is a battle to keep going I miss you so much I miss every single moment. I often pray you will open your heart to me again, I pray you will feel the sincerity when I call out your name to the heavens.

Since you left I have waited for you to come back or at least care, when hearts break it’s never fair. There’s nothing I wouldn’t give to have you again by my side and back in my life.

I always thought it would be forevermore you and I. I don’t understand what happened to our love I’m still here fighting for us I don’t know how to give up.

It’s always been you for me and it still hasn’t changed you walked away from me now I’m playing a losing game. I miss everything about you when we were together there was nothing I couldn’t do.

I hear your voice calling out to me and I pray as I fall to my knees begging God to take this pain from me. If I ever got the chance to love you again I promise you this I would do it so much better I wish I could still call you my friend.

I’m so sorry for everything that went wrong please understand I loved you all along.